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E.L. Zeitgeist's avatar

"If you gaze into the navel long enough, you end up at the back, right above your butt, smelling your own farts" is the quote of the year, thank you for that. But you're right. Addictions to our sense of failure is a sure fire way to keep that dope alive. I'll say that the cliche is true: as you get older, you care less about what people think—nay—how YOU think about what other people think of you. This morning I got into a webhole about Gen Z ripping on Mills for their skinny jeans and tucked-in sweaters and ankle boots, and for a split second I thought, omg I'm Gen X and even MORE uncool. But then felt the gentle soft weight of not-caring embrace me like a Snuggie (that I wouldn't wear to the mall per se, but maybe to the post office). Stellar story arc of a season, Alex. I hope there are new gems materializing in your BATcave.

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

I really enjoyed this season, Alex. You're not alone with these thoughts. Also want to say that my mom got famous (as an actress) when I was a kid living in a rural town a zillion miles from where she had to do her big, glamorous work. It never made me proud. It made me lonely. And my dad downshifted his acting career and stayed home. He was also a writer, and obviously that was available to him right at the kitchen table, and so he sat there every day, back curved, muttering over his legal pads, scribbling and smiling. When I was a teenager I rolled my eyes at him. But now I see that the way he just worked to delight himself because he loved it was absolutely legendary. And like I said--my mom got no glory at home. We needed the money, and I appreciate that she made it, but her worldly persona will always be a little alienating. I way prefer her with no makeup and mismatched hair clips, singing off key in the car (even though she has also sung at Carnegie Hall). Anyway, all things you might consider from Wilder's future POV.

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